what stranger could want to get to know one and maybe go out for tea sometime and have some drinks. and see what else is on offer in Nelson tarhooner see what fun there could be. and would one want to give happy hugs. think with aye stranger shorld give the benfit of doute or no doute with out meeting strangers who really want to meet. they who ever hasn't meet you online shorld be open mined if you really want to meet thows strangers. wether aye person has been posstive or negative online cuorse there's allways a good antser for things. that can't be known just online.